My Toxic Family: How to Survive Parental Dislike and Become Happy
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My Toxic Family: How to Survive Parental Dislike and Become Happy
9.99 €
- Are your parents perfect, but you feel like you were switched at birth? - Did you grow up like a weed and "survive" all your life? - Were you dusted off, but for some reason your life didn't work out? - At 30, are you afraid to buy jeans without your mom asking? - Quit your job to serve your dad? - Do you feel guilty all around? Did you ruin the chapel, too? ...How do you imagine bad parents? Are they the ones who beat and drink? Reading your letters, I saw that child abuse is multifaceted and hides behind the facade of both aggression and indifference, and sacrificial love. Whether you grow like a weed or are served breakfast in bed, whether they make you a second Mozart or "forge character" with kicks and insults - the result is roughly the same, give or take. So that's why many of us adults are unhappy! That's why we don't know what our vocation is, are unhealthy mentally and physically, live and socialize with people who don't like us, use us, humiliate us! - That's where low self-esteem and feelings of worthlessness come from. - That's where self-eating, envy, soul-crushing guilt come from. - That's where the shame of "not fitting in" comes from. - Crises and life's dead ends.... - Psychosomatic illnesses, depression, neuroses... - Panic fear of loneliness... - And that's where social problems come from! Don't see the connection? Read it and you will. You think it doesn't concern you? Again, read and see. For now, I will say one thing: child abuse - to one degree or another - is going on behind almost every door.... "Of all the lots that fall to the lot of living beings, there is no lot more unfortunate than that which falls to the lot of children." M. Saltykov-Shchedrin, "Poshekhonskaya starina".
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