Fucking scandals! How to communicate with a teenager is normal
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Child and adolescent psychologist Nikita Karpov has already helped many families. In his second book, he pays special attention to building relationships and resolving conflicts between parents and teenagers. Mom and Dad is difficult to accept that their child is growing up, and from this changes not only his behavior and priorities, but also the style of communication, there is a need for their own boundaries, the desire to challenge the rules. In his already beloved by readers and subscribers easy style, with a share of humor and at the same time in full earnest, Nikita Karpov offers an effective communication strategy that will help to establish contact with even the most rebellious teenager.
"If parents behave as usual, they run the risk of being left in front of a slammed door. The teenager will completely shut his life from them, and it will not be possible to influence him from the word at all. It won't just be a damaged relationship, it will be a loss of contact". Over 20 years of practice he has seen that sometimes parents exaggerate the scale of the problem and try to change the teenager, which does not bring any result. Nikita Karpov brings real cases and shares proven ways to not only help families, but also to show that all conflicts can be resolved. "Operational problems with rudeness, late returns, risky behavior, strange companies and activities, statements and decisions that scare parents will not disappear at a click. They can be influenced, but not eliminated. Only the child can make the decision to eliminate. It is up to you to choose how to influence."
In this book you will learn
- why the usual leverage no longer work and what you can replace them with;
- how to get rid of excessive anxiety and parental "guilt";
- what conflicts are really about;
- why teenagers drive their parents;
- what methods of communication professionals recommend.
"If parents behave as usual, they run the risk of being left in front of a slammed door. The teenager will completely shut his life from them, and it will not be possible to influence him from the word at all. It won't just be a damaged relationship, it will be a loss of contact". Over 20 years of practice he has seen that sometimes parents exaggerate the scale of the problem and try to change the teenager, which does not bring any result. Nikita Karpov brings real cases and shares proven ways to not only help families, but also to show that all conflicts can be resolved. "Operational problems with rudeness, late returns, risky behavior, strange companies and activities, statements and decisions that scare parents will not disappear at a click. They can be influenced, but not eliminated. Only the child can make the decision to eliminate. It is up to you to choose how to influence."
In this book you will learn
- why the usual leverage no longer work and what you can replace them with;
- how to get rid of excessive anxiety and parental "guilt";
- what conflicts are really about;
- why teenagers drive their parents;
- what methods of communication professionals recommend.
See also:
- All books by the publisher
- All books by the author
- All books in the series Dialogue with a teenager